BY DENNIS HOGAN ─ What do you do when you are on the tightrope of life … and there is no net? We really have but two choices: Trust God with all you have, or blame God for allowing you to be in this position.
I have been there. In 2014, I sat in a doctor’s office and was told I had Stage-4 cancer — for the third time. The words hit like a kick to the gut. This time I was given a 1% chance to survive. Do the math. I was facing a 99% chance this would be my end on earth.
Tightropes come in many forms. Financial ruin. Death of a loved one. Marital collapse. Every time — every circumstance — we face the same choice. Trust God or blame him.
We see this play out throughout the Bible. My favorite hero who truly lived a life of trust was Joseph. Early in Genesis 37, we see that God had chosen him for something extraordinary — giving him dreams and the boldness to share them even when it cost him.
And Joseph dreamed a dream, and he told it his brethren: and they hated him yet the more, Genesis 37:5.
But being called by God did not guarantee an easy life. In fact, the opposite was true. Joseph lived an extraordinarily difficult, painful, and lonely life.
Somehow we develop the false idea that when we become a Christian, "God Will Take Care of Me" — meaning we won’t have to face hardship. That wasn’t the case for Joseph. He was thrown into a pit by his own brothers, sold into slavery, wrongly accused, and spent years in prison for a crime he did not commit. Where was God? On the surface, it would appear God had abandoned Joseph in that foreign land and that dingy dungeon.
That is precisely where blame is born. Not in rebellion — but in silence. When God doesn’t answer on our schedule, when the pit gets deeper instead of shallower, blame feels like the only honest response.
But God was there 100% of the time.
The Lord was with Joseph so that he prospered. His master saw that the Lord was with him and that the Lord gave him success in everything he did, Genesis 39:2-3.
(A pagan notices the presence of God.)
But the Lord was with Joseph and showed him steadfast love and gave him favor in the sight of the keeper of the prison, Genesis 39:21.
The warden paid no attention to anything under Joseph’s authority, because the Lord was with him, and the Lord made everything he did successful, Genesis 39:23.
(A second pagan observes it.)
Joseph could have thrown up his hands and blamed God for everything. And yet he chose to trust. God’s presence and providence were not always felt — but they were always there. That is the kind of trust we need. Always.
Trusting God is not a transactional process. It is not quid-pro-quo — I trust you, so you owe me something good in return.
Why then should we trust God? Because his timing is perfect. His love is unwavering. His mission is holy. And his sacrifice for us is unimaginable.
The tightrope is real. The net is gone. But the God who was with Joseph in the pit and in the prison is the same God who is with you right now.
Trust him — not because of what he will do, but because of who he is and what he has already done. The cross settled that question forever.
Dennis Hogan preaches for the Horse Cave KY congregation. He is a three-time cancer survivor who was given a 1% chance of survival in 2014. He is the author of Trusting God Without a Net, available on Amazon.
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