Engaged couples often describe their fiancé as being their best friend. They can also feel deeply attracted to their fiancé as they experience the feeling that this will last forever. Is this enough?
The data, however, does not lie. We hear, “I fell out of love,” far too often. The love they thought would fill a lifetime evaporated.
Fortunately, there is another kind of love that does endure. When we understand how these types of love differ, we possess the ability to change the odds in our favor. Continue reading “A love that is fickle and a love that endures”
I love being a father.
If every bit of progress of my children isn’t imprinted on film or memory card, it is in my mind as fresh as the day it happened. Those memories include when each of our three children walked, when they learned to ride a bicycle, and graduated from college. Sure, there have been trials and difficulties but the joys outweigh them all.
Each child has repeatedly assured us of their love for their mother and me. I know their love is genuine because they show it often. Continue reading “Being a father”
If I wash thee not, thou hast no part with me (John 13:8)
I was adopted when I was about 18 months old. Was I worthy of that? How could I be? How could I have earned such an act?
Peter felt unworthy to have Jesus wash his feet. It was completely out of order for Jesus to stoop down and wash Peter’s feet. Peter was unworthy.
Jesus did it anyway. He even warned Peter not to refuse him. Continue reading “Unworthy, but worth it”
“But I say to you who are listening: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. To the person who strikes you on the cheek, offer the other as well…Treat others in the same way that you would want them to treat you” (Luke 6:27-31 NET).
When Jesus taught the people, whether in a large setting such as what we find here or in a smaller setting, he often said things that went against how people usually live. Here he is dealing with who people love and how they show it. Although taught almost two thousand years ago, it is equally applicable to us today. Continue reading “Who do we love?”
Do you want to fight less and love more? Author and conflict resolution expert Laurie Puhn suggests the very first principle involves believing “Love Is Conditional,” even though “many of us are brought up to believe that romantic love should survive ‘no matter what.'” She explains how a belief in unconditional love is “one of the biggest saboteurs of relationship success.”
Well, she’s partly right. However, a solid scriptural viewpoint can acknowledge the value of her insight while pursuing a stronger and healthier approach to love. Continue reading “Love is in the air … or maybe not?”
We control that love that does good to others. Continue reading In control of love