I JUST SPENT $43.87 at the dollar store…
How could I spend so much money at a place where things cost only one dollar? I went in to buy paper cups and craft sticks for a church project and Spanish moss if they had any pretty gift bags.
Turns out the store had all of these things — and much more. Like this cool nail file that has green sparkly flowers on one side. Paper towels, sunglasses, a magazine that’s only slightly out-of-date. Chewing gum. I even found a darling yellow hat for my granddaughter. And this purple pill organizer that lets me put all my supplements for the week in one place.
Wait. I’m beginning to see how I could spend $43.87 at the dollar store. I did it one dollar at a time.
Little things tend to add up. A cookie here, some ice cream there — a pair of jeans that won’t zip. A week too busy for devotional reading, a day so crowded that there’s no time for exercise, an evening when one TV show turns into hours spent staring at the tube — then I wonder why I’m feeling sluggish, physically and spiritually.
But it works in a positive way too. One little act of kindness, one smile at a hassled clerk, one card sent to brighten someone’s day — and the world doesn’t seem as hostile, as hopeless. So here’s to little things. Well managed, they can have big results. Mary Lou Carney
KneEmail: “For what you had before I came was little, and it has increased to a great amount; the LORD has blessed you since my coming. And now, when shall I also provide for my own house?” Genesis 30.30
Bible reading for 07.06.11: Acts 14; Job 32, 33
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Choke
WHEN I WAS 16, I was an accomplished junior golfer…
I had played in many tournaments throughout my home state as well as in the United States Junior Amateur. My goal in life was to play professional golf.
At one point, I participated in a state-level tournament and was favored to win. However, although I played well early on, I choked in the last round and ended up well behind the leaders. I was devasted.
I came home and broke down in from of my mother. She consoled me, which is what mothers do. I realize now that I didn’t really need a mother’s tender consolation. I needed a hard-nosed coach to yank me out of my trough of self-pity and say, “Every competitor goes through failure! Learn a lesson from it and keep going!”
Because I didin’t have that kind of coaching, I didn’t know that getting nervous and tense during a competition was a common affliction in competitive sports. I didin’t know that I could overcome it. Instead, that one failure made me see myself as a failure–someone who couldn’t handle the heat of competition.
I played in other tournaments and often jumped out to an early lead, only to tighten up and fall back in the pack as the pressure mounted. My self-esteen was based on my performance–and I was performing terribly! I went on to land a scholarship and become a club professional for three years, but I never fulfilled my potential as a golfer.
Years later, I learned to loosen up, have fun and let go of the tension–and I won a local club championship. If I had learned that lesson earlier in life, who knows how far I might have gone as a golfer.
THOUGHT: Failure hurts. Whether you fail in marriage, business or golf, failure undermines your self-esteem as few other experiences can. But failure isn’t the final word on your life. It’s just one of the raw ingredients God uses to manufacture success. Os Hillman, “Confronting the Fear of Failure,” The Upside of Adversity, 194-195
KneEmail: “Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 3.13-14
Bible reading for 04.25.11: Luke 18.24-43; 2 Samuel 21, 22
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Diet
I WAS RECENTLY talking with a friend about a documentary he just watched with his children…
Someone decided to test the quality of food in one of America’s most famous fast-food restaurants. The thirty-day plan was to eat nothing but fast food morning, noon, and evening. Tests were done prior to the experiment and would be done after the experiment to evaluate levels of fat, triglycerides, weight gain, and overall health.
Unfortunately the experiment did not last thirty days. After twenty or so days of steady diet of only fast food, the man’s body began to shut down. The high-sugar, high-fat, fried, and processed food began to build up toxins to such a degree that he had to be hospitalized. Ironically the food tasted great; tragically it almost killed him.
Sometimes what tastes great isn’t very good for us. And what reseachers tell us is that we acquire a taste for certain foods (like sugars and sweets) that can actually become addicting. It may look good, smell good, and taste good, but that doesn’t mean it is good. All those foods promise pleasure, enjoyment, and fun (and an occasional burger never hurt anyone), but a steady diet of foods high in calories, high in fat, and low in nutrition will literally kill you. As someone has wisely said, “We are what we eat!”
THOUGHT: What most Christians don’t realize is that the same thing is true spiritually. If we fill our minds with the world’s value system, we will die. We will experience death or separation in our relationship with God, ourselves, and others. Fast food, it tastes good, looks good, and promises a wonderful time only to deliver death. In order for us to enjoy and get the very best from God, it requires a change in diet. Chip Ingram, “Could Your Mental Diet Be Killing You?,” Living on the Edge, 71-72
KneEmail: “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” Romans 12.2
Bible reading for 02.25.2011: Mark 5.21-43; Numbers 12-14
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Cold
SOMEONE HAS NOTED, “A cold church, like cold butter, never spreads well…”
I believe that there is a great deal of truth in the above statement. I am convinced that one of the reasons why congregations in many communities are not growing like they once did is because they are not as warm as they once were. Cold congregations don’t spread quickly or easily.
The early church spread rapidly. They enjoyed daily additions (Acts 2.47). Their numbers multiplied (Acts 6.1, 7). Why? What was responsible for the rapid spread of Christianity?
I do not think that we can attribute the rapid spread of Christianity to one thing. No doubt, many things played a part. However, I am convinced that one of the things that played a key role was the warmth of the early church. The early Christians had a fervent love for one another (1 Peter 1.22). Twice in the early chapters of Acts, Luke records how that they sold their possessions to help one another (Acts 2.44-46; 4.32-37). As you recall, this kind of love was the identifying trait that Jesus gave for His disciples. We read, “A new commandment I give unto you, that you should love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this shall all men know that you are My disciples, if you have love one to another” (John 13.34-35).
In addition to a fervent love for one another, the early church had a fervent love for the lost (Acts 8.4) and for the poor (Galatians 6.10). Is it any wonder that Christianity spread so rapidly? Wouldn’t you want to be a part of a family like that?
How well are we spreading as a congregation? Are our numbers going up or down? If we are not spreading quickly or easily as we want to, we may stand in need of warming up. Let me encourage you to go next door and to warmly talk with your neighbor. Furthermore, seek out someone new at work and warmly welcome them to the company. Finally, at the next church service, warmly greet visitors and brethren. In a short time, I believe that you will find that things are spreading easier and faster. Wade Webster, “A Cold Church,” The Searcher, 01.30.11
KneEmail: “By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 15.13).
Bible reading for 02.04.11: Matthew 22.23-46; Exodus 34-35
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Fall
IN 1985 JOE SIMPSON broke his leg on his descent of a 20,000-foot mountain in the Peruvian Andes…
Then after a second fall left him dangling in midair off a cliff, his partner, Simon Yates, had no choice but to cut the rope that tied them together. Failure to cut the rope meant that gravity would eventually pull them both off the steep mountain face to their deaths.
The rope snapped with the touch of Yates’ blade and Simpson dropped into a long, narrow, vertical ice tube with no way to get to the top. His body came to rest precariously on a narrow ice bridge between two gaping vertical drops. He had two choices. He could either sit there until death slowly overtook his freezing body, or he could plunge into the dark unknown to meet death on his own terms. He had one ice screw left, which he banged into the wall of ice. The he threaded his rope through it and somehow managed to tie a crude knot in the end of it. This would be his anchor as he lowered his body into the deep, dark, icy unknown. He could not see the bottom of the ice tube — he could see only a cold, cruel, black hole. He had no idea if the end of the rope even touched the bottom. He purposely did not tie a knot in the end of the rope, which would have stopped his descent, preferring instead to plunge to his death rather than dangle in midair and slowly freeze to death.
To his surprise, his body eventually came to a rest on a flat surface of snow. But it turned out to be only an eggshell-thin layer of snow that was keeping gravity from sucking his body into the blackness. Then he saw a thin ray of light shining from the opposite side of the cavern. There was a 45-degree slope of ice leading up to where he could see a pinpoint of daylight. This was his way out – if only he could reach it.
He lay flat and shimmied gently across the thin layer of snow until he reached the other side of the cavern. But with a badly broken leg, the slope of ice looked impossible to climb.
He came up with a plan. He would bend over and dig a small foothold for each of his boots, which were equipped with crampons (metal claws) for climbing. Then he would pound his ice axes in the wall of ice above him and slowly lift his bad leg, then his good leg into the footholds, while pulling his body up with the ice axes. Each time he put weight on his bad leg, searing pain exploded up and down his leg. He would scream and curse out loud – his own words mocking him as they echoed through the hollow, frozen tube. Then he would repeat the process.
He made a decision to focus on the pattern rather than the pain. “The flares of pain became merged into the routine and I paid less attention to them, concentrating solely on the patterns.” He was so intent on focusing on the pattern that he refused to even look up to the object of his climb for fear that it would remind him of the little progress he had made and how far he still had to go. He knew where he was going, but it was more important to focus on the pattern. The pattern was working – one inch at a time, but it was working. After what seemed like an eternity, he popped his head up through the snow to see a ring of spectacularly beautiful mountains and blue sky. He had made it. But now he had to figure out a way to get down the rest of the mountain with a broken leg.
Simpson would be forced to repeat different patterns of behavior, standing, then falling forward, then crawling, then standing and falling forward again, for several days and nights without food or water. He would pick a spot in the distance and focus on it. Then he would give himself a deadline by which he had to get to it. When he finally got there, he would pick out another spot in the distance and repeat the pattern. Depending on the terrain, he would figure out a different pattern of movement that was most likely to push his body forward. Once he found the right pattern, he would simply focus on the pattern and repeat it over and over until he got to the next spot. It was a slow, agonizing process and his body got weaker and weaker as he went. Through the sheer force of his will and the voice inside his head that kept commanding his mangled body forward like a cruel drill sergeant, after several days, he finally got close enough to his campsite where his shouts could be heard. When his climbing partner found him, Simpson didn’t even look like himself. He face was bloody and scarred from falling repeatedly and from frostbite. His leg had swollen to almost the size of his waist. But he was alive.
What saved Joe Simpson was his decision to focus on a short, achievable goal and give himself a deadline to reach it. It was when he stopped pushing himself to get there by the deadline that he started to lose hope. He explains that his destination had become a “vague aim instead of a carefully planned objective. Without timing each stage, I had drifted aimlessly with no sense of urgency. Today it had to be different.”
What can we learn from Joe Simpson’s epic tale of survival?
1. In order to survive and prosper in times of adversity, you have to know what your final destination is and keep it always in your mind.
2. Break up the journey into small, achievable goals.
3. Experiment until you find a pattern of behavior that pulls you inch by inch closer to your goal.
4. Count on falling over and over while trying to find the right pattern. Then count on falling again even after you have found the right pattern. But make a decision to fall forward – in the direction of your goal.
5. If the goal seems impossible, focus on the pattern rather than the pain. Daniel R. Castro, “Heros Harvest Their Hidden Gifts,” Critical Choices That Change Lives, 130-133
KneEmail: 12 Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me. 13 Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, 14 I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:12-14
Bible reading for 11.08.10: Hebrews 5; Jeremiah 43-45
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Heat
PETER USED A powerful metaphor from the world of metallurgy…
When the metallurgist mines the metal, it is in an ore state with a mixture of dross. That means there are inherent corruptions in the metal that rob it of its strength and beauty. In order to bring the metal to its purest state, the metallurgist applies white hot heat until the ore is liquefied and boiling. In this process, the corruptions are boiled out, and it becomes fundamentally stronger and more beautiful than ever before.
What are trials? They are God’s boiling pot. When we initially come to Christ we are dross-corrupted. We are carrying around “corruptions” inside of us that rob us of our strength and beauty. So God, in the grandeur and faithfulness of His redemptive love, boils us. The difficulties that come our way are not a sign of His unfaithfulness and inattention. No, they are an indication of His love. He knows that we are not yet what we were meant to be. He has dug us out of the mine, but we need to be refined.
Now why is this so hard for us to deal with? I am convinced it is because we tend to live with a destination mentality. We want like to be easy, satisfying, and good as it can be, immediately here and now. But, this isn’t a time of destination. Peter says our destination is guaranteed, but we will not have it now. Now is a time of preparation. It is a time of radical, personal growth and chance, so God applies white hot heat to prepare us for the destination to come. Paul David Tripp, “Painful Faith: God’s Story and Suffering,” Lost in the Middle, 197-198
KneEmail: “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials, that the genuineness of your faith, being much more precious than gold that perishes, though it is tested by fire, may be found to praise, honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ.” 1 Peter 1:6-7; cf., Hebrews 12:5-11
Bible reading for 06.30.10: Acts 10:1-23; Job 17-19
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. SOMETIME IN THE next few weeks, Facebook will officially log its 500 millionth active member.
. If the website actually had land holdings, it would be the world’s third largest country by population, two-thirds bigger than the US.
. More than 1 in 4 people who browse the Internet not only have a Facebook account, but have returned to the site within the past 30 days.
. Facebook was founded in a college dorm six years ago by Mark Zuckerberg, a Harvard undergraduate who was looking for a way to help Ivy League students to keep tabs on one another.
. Today Zuckerberg is 26-years-old and a billionaire.
. 28% of Facebook users are older than 34.
. The site expanded membership to high schoolers in 2005 and to anyone over age 13 in 2006.
. Facebook has 1,400 employees; its headquarters are in Palo Alto, California.
. The site had 117 million unique visitors in the US in March.
. 70% of its users are in other countries.
. Volunteers are helping to translate the site into 70 languages.
. Users share more than 25 billion pieces of information with Facebook each month.
. Users download nearly 1 billion unique images per week.
. With 48 billion images, Facebook houses the largest photo collection in the world.
. Facebook will generate $1 billion in revenues in 2010 alone.
. Facebook flashed more than 176 billion banner ads at users in the first three months of this year.
Dan Fletcher, “Friends Without Borders,” TIME, May 21, 2010, 32-38
THOUGHT: If a dozen men could carry the gospel to the world 2,000 years ago and one man can connect with 500 million people around the world today, WHY CAN’T WE SHARE THE MESSAGE OF JESUS CHRIST WITH THE WORLD TODAY?!
KneEmail: “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.” Matthew 28:19
Bible reading for 06.02.10: John 13:1-20; 2 Chronicles 17-18
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Change
MOST PEOPLE FIGHT against change, especially when it affects them personally…
As novelist Leo Tolstoy said, “Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.” The ironic thing is that change is inevitable. Everybody has to deal with it. On the other hand, growth is optional. You can choose to grow or fight it. But know this: People unwilling to grow will never reach their potential.
In one of his books, Howard Hendricks asks the question, “How have you changed…lately? In the last week, let’s say? Or the last month? The last year? Can you be very specific?” He knows how people tend to get into a rut when it comes to growth and change. Growth is a choice, a decision that can really make a difference in a person’s life.
Most people don’t realize that successful and unsuccessful people do not differ substantially in their abilities. They vary in their desires to reach their potential. And nothing is more effective when it comes reaching potential than commitment to personal growth. John Maxwell
KneEmail: “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and forever.” 2 Peter 3:18
Bible reading for 02.02.10: Matthew 21:23-46; Exodus 29, 30
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Faith #3
FAITH IS INDISPENSIBLE in the lives of individual Christians (Hebrews 11:6)…
Faith is also the vital ingredient for church growth. The words “faith” and “belief” are used almost 500 times in the New Testament. No individual or congregation can ever be great without faith!
The contemporary religious scene offers no shortage of church growth experts who tout a wide variety of leadership styles, management plans, and growth strategies for building bigger, better, more exciting churches. In the final analysis, however, real growth in any congregation will never rise above the level of faith of its membership and leadership!
How can you determine whether or not a church possesses genuine faith?
A church with faith is a working church. James says, “But someone may wells say, ‘You have faith and I have works’; show me your faith without the works, and I will show you my faith by my works” (James 2:18). A church’s faith is measured by the energetic service, involvement, and sacrificial commitment of its members. Faith finds a way! We must dream, but we must also work our dreams!
A church with faith has its heart on God. We must never leave God out of the picture. Too often we talk of future plans and needed works as though God were not even involved. We conclude that some things are “impossible” or “out of the question” because we have eliminated God from the discussion. We made the mistake of trying to calculate the future of the church with an adding machine and a slide rule, without leaving room for God! We may plant and water, but it is God who gives the increase!
Genuine faith is highly visible — it can be seen! Our problem is that we try to build churches the wrong way around — we want the results of faith without the rigors of faith! But faith cannot be counterfeited or imitated. It must be real to produce real church growth! Bobby Dockery
KneEmail: “So then faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God.” Romans 10:17
Bible reading for 11.19.09: James 1; Ezekiel 11 – 13
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Bounce
GENERAL GEORGE PATTON argued, “Success is measured by how high you bounce when you’ve hit bottom…”
Simon Peter is a perfect illustration of this truth. He forsook his Lord and Friend in the garden. He even denied that he knew Jesus when identified by a young maiden around the fire. He hit bottom. However, he didn’t stay on the bottom. He bounced, and he bounced high. He would preach the gospel powerfully on Pentecost just a short time later (Acts 2). He would be a catalyst in the growth of the early church (Acts 3-12).
The question is not whether we are going to fail; but rather, how high we are going to bounce once we do. (Wade Webster)
KneEmail: “Peter answered and said to Him, ‘Even if all are made to stumble because of You, I will never be made to stumble’” (Matthew 26:33).
Bible reading for 08.03.09: Romans 6; Psalm 63 – 65
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