I JUST SPENT $43.87 at the dollar store…
How could I spend so much money at a place where things cost only one dollar? I went in to buy paper cups and craft sticks for a church project and Spanish moss if they had any pretty gift bags.
Turns out the store had all of these things — and much more. Like this cool nail file that has green sparkly flowers on one side. Paper towels, sunglasses, a magazine that’s only slightly out-of-date. Chewing gum. I even found a darling yellow hat for my granddaughter. And this purple pill organizer that lets me put all my supplements for the week in one place.
Wait. I’m beginning to see how I could spend $43.87 at the dollar store. I did it one dollar at a time.
Little things tend to add up. A cookie here, some ice cream there — a pair of jeans that won’t zip. A week too busy for devotional reading, a day so crowded that there’s no time for exercise, an evening when one TV show turns into hours spent staring at the tube — then I wonder why I’m feeling sluggish, physically and spiritually.
But it works in a positive way too. One little act of kindness, one smile at a hassled clerk, one card sent to brighten someone’s day — and the world doesn’t seem as hostile, as hopeless. So here’s to little things. Well managed, they can have big results. Mary Lou Carney
KneEmail: “For what you had before I came was little, and it has increased to a great amount; the LORD has blessed you since my coming. And now, when shall I also provide for my own house?” Genesis 30.30
Bible reading for 07.06.11: Acts 14; Job 32, 33
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Dentist
“OPEN WIDER,” requested the dentist, as he began his examination of the patient…
“Oh, no!” he said. “You’ve got the biggest cavity I’ve ever seen — the biggest cavity I’ve ever seen.”
“OK Doc!” replied the patient. “I’m scared enough without you saying something like that twice.”
“I didn’t!” said the dentist. “That was the echo…”
I did something this past week that I never look forward to doing – I went to the dentist. Fortunately, it wasn’t anything traumatic, just a routine cleaning of the teeth. But it reminded me of something I have long believed – that going to the dentist relates to what we’re doing as a church (and specifically, what I’m doing as a preacher). Allow me to explain.
Like many people, I don’t enjoy going to the dentist and I tend to put it off a lot longer than I ought to. It’s not primarily because of the cost (although that’s certainly a factor). And while some people are afraid to go to the dentist, fearing possible pain, that’s never been a problem for me. I don’t mind the sound of the drill, or the poking and the prodding in my mouth. No, the reason I dread going to the dentist has to do with guilt.
You see, I don’t floss as often as I ought to. I know it’s important, but I have always found flossing to be a difficult habit for me to keep up. And whenever I go to the dentist, I know what he’s going to say – “You’re not flossing. Don’t you know how important flossing is? You need to floss!” And I want to say (but don’t), “Yes, I know. I’m guilty! I knew I was guilty before I walked in here. I don’t need you telling what a terrible person I am!”
I understand the position the dentist is in. He wants what is best for my health. If I’m doing something that is not beneficial to my teeth, he has a responsibility to tell me. I don’t want him to stop caring about me. But because of my guilt, I don’t want to hear it, so my response is to simply avoid going to see him.
I wonder how many people there are who approach the church in the same way. They know they’re not living right and when they go to worship, they know what they’re going to hear from the preacher — “You’re not living right. You need to change your life! This is the way you ought to live!” Their response is to say (or to think), “Yes, I know. I’m guilty! I knew I was guilty before I walked in here. I don’t need you telling what a terrible person I am!”
I’m in a situation similar to that of my dentist. I have a responsibility to talk about sin because I care about the spiritual well-being of others. We can’t ignore sin just because talking about it makes people uncomfortable. But if people already feel a burden of guilt and they don’t want to hear about it, they simply stop coming to worship.
As I was considering the awkward position my dentist was in (“Do I say something and make my patient feel more guilty or not say something and show that I don’t care?”), his dental assistant found the perfect words. She said to me, “As you know, you need to floss more. I understand, I have a hard time with it myself.”
Suddenly, I felt at ease. Here was someone who cared enough to tell me what I needed to hear, but who wasn’t looking down at me, criticizing me, and “beating me up”. Instead, we were on the same level, facing the same problem together. All it took was her saying, “I understand what you’re going through. I struggle with that, too.”
What a difference it would make if we could all simply acknowledge to one another, “You’re not doing what’s right, but I understand because I struggle, too.” What a difference it would make if the world could see us, not as a bunch of people looking down on them, criticizing them and “beating them up”, but as a group of people who share in their struggles and who truly desire to help one another to live holier lives.
KneEmail: “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in a trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness…” (Galatians 6:1)
(And in case you’re wondering, yes, I did floss this morning!) Alan Smith
Bible reading for 07.08.11: Acts 15.22-41; Job 36-37
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Parent
EDITOR’S NOTE: Today’s KneEmail comes from the National Review Online. Please pay special attention to the last three paragraphs. — mb
AS SOON AS the jury proclaimed Casey Anthony “not guilty,” her parents, George and Cindy Anthony, stood up, blank-faced, and walked out of the courtroom.
It was one of the few times since the trial began that the Anthonys did something I could relate to.
Just a few days earlier, Cindy Anthony attempted to convince jurors that she was the person who Google-searched “chloroform” on her home computer. When the searches were determined to have occurred during the time she was clocked in at work and logged into the company computer, she maintained her unlikely story, an obvious attempt to exonerate her daughter.
If Casey’s parents loved her enough to lie for her, there’s also no doubt that they adored their beautiful granddaughter, Caylee. Like so many other grandparents these days, they were the realparents to that little girl, providing the love and stability that their immature, partying, and selfish adult daughter wouldn’t. Casey Anthony didn’t have a job and she and Caylee lived with them — until Caylee disappeared and Casey moved in with her new boyfriend and his roommates. The Anthonys decorated their granddaughter’s room and filled their home and backyard with toys for her, including a playhouse that George Anthony built a floor onto so Caylee wouldn’t have to sit on the ground.
Like the Anthonys, my parents adore their grandkids. Like Mr. Anthony, my daddy lovingly tiled the bottom of the outdoor playhouse at their house for their grandkids. The difference between my parents and the Anthonys is that I can guarantee that if I had anything to do with the disappearance of one of my kids, or if I was lying or withholding information about my child’s whereabouts to the cops, as Casey clearly did and was found guilty of today, my parents would not be trying to help me get away with it. I am absolutely certain that they would be fully cooperating with law enforcement on behalf of their innocent grandchild.
The Casey Anthony verdict didn’t deliver justice for little Caylee. But it did give America some insight into the kind of family dysfunction and parental enabling that produces a mother like Casey: one who could move in with her boyfriend, enter a bikini contest, and get a “Bella Vita” tattoo during the time her little girl’s body was decomposing in a swamp near the family home.
Perhaps the most poignant moment in the trial was when the prosecutor described the way a different mother grieved the loss of her child in an accidental drowning. Sometime after the child was buried, a big storm came. That mother ran out to her child’s gravestone to be with her because, she said, her little girl had never been alone in a storm before. That’s how someone deserving of the title “mother” grieves. Sadly, Casey will never get enough time in prison to reflect on such things. Rachel Campos-Duffy at http://www.nationalreview.com/corner/271149/injustice-rachel-campos-duffy#.ThWzgLQAT8s.facebook
KneEmail: “And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventers of evil things, disobedient to parents, undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful; who knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.” Romans 1:28-32
Bible reading for 07.07.11: Acts 15.1-21; Job 34-35
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Judgment
THE JUDGMENT WILL not be for the purpose of determining guilt or innocence…
A man commits a crime against the peace and dignity of the state; he is arrested by duly constituted authority, brought to court and tried before a jury of his peers. What is the function of the jury? To listen to the evidence and to render a verdict. What is the verdict? It is a determination of the innocence or guilt of the accused. After the verdict is in, the prisoner is brought to the bar, and the judge pronounces judgment upon him. What does the judge do? Does he ascertain innocence or guilt? No. That has already been determined by the jury. What does the judge do? He makes formal pronouncement of sentence. (Guy N. Woods)
KneEmail: “I charge you therefore before God and the Lord Jesus Christ, who will judge the living and the dead at His appearing…” 2 Timothy 4:1a
Test
YOU MIGHT ASK, “Why does God need to test us…?
Doesn’t He know everything, including what we would do in every situation?” Yes, God knows–but we don’t! God doesn’t test us in order to find out something He doesn’t already know. He tests us so that we can learn about ourselves and His love, power and faithfulness.
In Genesis 22, God tested Abraham by commanding him to sacrifice his son Isaac on a mountain in the land of Moriah. Isaac was Abraham’s only son by his wife, Sarah–the son God had promised to Abraham. By demanding that Isaac be sacrificed, God seemed to be nullifying His covenant of making a great nation out of Abraham. How could God’s promise be fulfilled if Isaac was dead?
God tested Abraham to reveal whether or not Abraham truly trusted His promise. Yes, God knew what Abraham would do, but He wanted Abraham to know as well. So God put Abraham to the test–and Abraham passed it. As Abraham raised his knife to sacrifice his own son, God stopped him and provided a sacrificial ram instead.
THOUGHT: Every test involves obedience in one way or another. When God tests us, He reveals the true state of our hearts. (Os Hillman)
KneEmail: “Examine me, O LORD, and prove me; try my mind and my heart” (Psalm 26:2).
Science
AN ELDERLY GENTLEMAN was travelling alone on a train in France…
A much younger man, sitting next to him, watched the older man take out his Bible and begin to read. After a while, the younger man decided to strike up a conversation, and he asked, “What are you reading?”
The older man replied, “I am reading from the sixth chapter of John in the New Testament.”
“What does it say?” the young man asked.
“Oh, it’s the story of the miracle of the loaves and fishes. The Gospel writer tells us about a vact crowd that had followed Jesus because of the signs He was performing for the sick, and how Jesus preached to the crowd until it was dark. They were hungry, and with only five barley loaves and a couple of dried fish, Jesus fed the entire crowd of 5,000. And the leftovers filled twelve baskets.”
Scornfully and cynically, the younger man said, “Surely you don’t believe that!”
But the older man answered, “Oh, yes I do.”
To which the younger man said, “Well, I can see that you have been brainwashed by ancient superstitions. Not me! That could never happen to me because, you see, I am a scientist. The only thing I trust and believe in is what can be proven scientifically. The story you have read defies the laws of science, and therefore I can’t accept it. Give me facts, provable facts. As a man of science, i have no faith in miracles. But, of course, I can’t expect you to understand that.”
At that point, the train began to slow down. “Here is my station,” said the young man as he rose from his seat. “It was nice talking to you, Mr.–I’m sorry, I didn’t get your name.” With that, the older man reached into his pocket and pulled out his business card. He handed it to the younger man. The younger man looked at it. Imagine his surprise; the name on the card was Louis Pasteur…one of the great scientists of all time. (James W. Moore)
KneEmail: “And truly Jesus did many other signs in the presence of His disciples, which are not written in this book; but these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that believing you may have life in Hhis name” (John 20:30-31).
Distracted
SO MANY DISTRACTIONS fill our lives that couples can easily drift miles apart, even while living under the same roof…
Healthy communication is essential for a healthy marriage, but it requires the full attention of both parties.
Dennis Rainey once confessed that he was distracted with a television program while his wife was trying to talk with him. Finally, in exasperation she walked over to his chair, placed her hands on either side of his head, turned it toward her, and pled, ‘Listen to me with your face!” She wanted heart-to-heart communication. )Tom and Jeannie Elliff)
KneEmail: “So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath” (James 1:19).
Reverence
A YOUNG STRANGER to the Alps was making his first climb, accompanied by two stalwart guides…
It was a steep, hazardous ascent. But he felt secure with one guide ahead and one following. For hours they climbed. And now, breathless, they reached for those rocks protruding through the snow above them — the summit.
The guide ahead wished to let the stranger have the first glorious view of heaven and earth, and moved aside to let him go first. Forgetting the gales that would blow across the summit rocks, the young man leaped to his feet. But the chief guide dragged him down. “On your knees, sir!” he shouted. “You are never safe here except on your knees.” (George Vandeman)
THOUGHT: We must come to the heights of the Father’s throne (in worship) with reverence and humility.
KneEmail: “God is greatly to be feared in the assembly of the saints, and to be held in reverence by all those around Him” (Psm. 89:7).
Standard
CAN YOU IMAGINE a world without measurements or weight…?
A world without systems standards of any kind? Think what would happen if there were no alphabet, no metric system, no currencies, no hours or minutes. Imagine if 1 plus 1 didn’t equal 2 but instead 3, 12.863 or 39 — and only on a sunny day.
Without these things, there would be anarchy. Commerce, science, music, medicine, engineering and almost all other disciplines would be much more difficult — if not impossible — to pursue. But more than that, a world without standards is really not a world without standards; it is — rather — a world in which there are many standards, defined by whomever, however he or she sees fit. For example, if I wanted to own your house, I could offer you my No. 2 leaded pencil because, hey, in my mind that pencil sure is worth alot. And if the words “muggleforth sienkleton ropersplatten” don’t make sense to you — well, that’s your fault, because they add up in my book.
Obviously, we need certain standards to function in life, whether those standards are time measurement, established rules for language, or simply the acceptance that a dollar is worth 100 cents. Without acknowledging and accepting these principles as truth, the world would be pretty chaotic.
THOUGHT: It is interesting that we accept this notion — that standards are necessary — in most every area of our culture, but that when it comes to the moral state of our culture, we are often quick to reject that standards are necessary or important. Even the most avowed secularist and relativist is likely to agree that certain mathematical laws are reliable across time and cultures, such as the Pythagorean Theorem. But often these same people will contradict themselves and say that there are no absolutes. They will say that morality cannot be considered absolute and unchanging. (Alex McFarland)
KneEmail: “In those days there was no king in Israel; everyone did what was right in his own eyes” (Judges 17:6).
Hope
IN 1997 THE JOURNAL of the American Heart Association reported on some remarkable research…
According to the Chicago Tribune, Susan Everson of the Human Population Laboratory of the Public Health Institute in Berkeley, California, found that people who experienced high levels of despair had a 20 percent greater occurence of atherosclerosis — the narrowing of their arteries — than did optimistic people. “This is the same magnitude of increased risk that one sees in comparing a pack-a-day smoker to a non-smoker,” said Everson.
In other words, despair can be as bad for you as smoking a pack a day.
THOUGHT: That is just one more reason to choose hope and and faith. The Christian life contributes to good health today, and eternal life tomorrow.
KneEmail: “Therefore we do not lose heart. Even though our outward man is perishing, yet the inward man is being renewed day by day” (2 Cor. 4:16).