Do you want peace? Paul shows the way,
For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. Because the carnal mind is enmity against God; for it is not subject to the law of God, nor indeed can be. So then, those who are in the flesh cannot please God (Romans 8:6-8).
You have to decide what kind of mind you want to have. The mind of the flesh sets itself against God, whereas the mind of the spirit subjects itself to God.