A matter comes up between Christians, and one is ready to sue the other. Should those two go before the world to judge their case? Paul said no. He also asked,
“I say this to your shame. Is it so, that there is not a wise man among you, not even one, who will be able to judge between his brethren?” (1 Corinthians 6:5).
When conflict arises between you and another member of the church, seek out several people in the congregation to get their wisdom on the matter, and see how it can be resolved within the congregation.