Who is the topic of your conversation? Listen to yourself carefully, and you might be surprised by what you hear. I have done that and discovered how much I talk about myself.
True, we have to make references to ourselves, and so on, but I am talking about the emphasis that we give. And the amount of time.
“For we do not preach ourselves, but Christ Jesus the Lord, and ourselves your bondservants for Jesus’ sake” (2 Corinthians 4:5).
Let that be our goal. We want to serve others, even as Jesus did, and we want to speak of Him ultimately.